The collected and unified mind is already here. It's not anything that we need to go out and find or create—it's part of our nature. So we do our best, with a wholehearted effort, to create the conditions, and then we receive what reality brings to us. When we let go of craving, when we are open to impermanence, when we thin the sense of self—what emerges in that space? What happens? What I notice through direct experience is generosity, kindness, tenderness, care, often an ache in my heart, and an incredible capacity to be with suffering.
Erin Selover, LMFT
Residential Retreat Teacher
Erin Selover is a Dharma teacher with over 20 years of Buddhist training and serves as a residential retreat teacher at Spirit Rock Meditation Center. She currently works as a Spiritual Strategist with individuals and is a Somatic-Based Marriage and Family Therapist.Since 2018, her passion has been distributive governance and needs-based gift economics. She has complemented her Buddhist practice and studies with studying and experimenting with Miki Kashtan and the Nonviolent Global Liberation community. As a white settler of Irish descent on Indigenous lands, she’s in ongoing inquiry about how power and privilege functions within modernity and the complex history of her ancestors. Drawing from these threads, she co-stewards a meditation community integrating the Celtic Wheel of the Year and Buddhism within needs-based gift economics and distributive governance. She completed Spirit Rock and IMS residential retreat teacher training program in 2016. She was mentored by Phillip Moffitt and trained as a strategist with his Life Balance Institute.
Erin Selover's Upcoming Programs
Retreat | Online
Sunday, December 15 | 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Calling Forth Vision: A Winter Solstice Daylong
During this retreat, we’ll meet the winter solstice with reverence and humility as we move through the longest nights of the year and welcome the returning of the light. During the morning session we will practice mindfulness meditation, abiding in silence and stillness. In the afternoon we’ll reflect on the previous year and conclude with a ritual that invites a release of that which no longer serves us and a calling forth of that which we feel emerging from within.
Erin Selover
Retreat | On-Land
Sunday, December 15 | 6:30 PM - 9:00 PM
Chanting, Meditation and Winter Solstice Ritual
The great love, joy, and sacred light that this season celebrates are found within our own hearts. During our time together, we’ll experience the nourishment of interconnection as we use the powerful and sublime blend of chanting and meditation to carry us from the frenzy of “holiday mind” to the ocean of the awakened heart. This uplifting evening will include chanting (call and response) and meditation, and we will conclude with a beautiful candlelight ritual to honor the winter solstice.
Retreat | On-Land
June 5 - June 12, 2025 | Thursday - Thursday | 7 nights
Cultivating Citta: Intuitive Wisdom and Embodied Love
Registration Open. This retreat will focus on cultivating relaxed and kind attention in all activities to support stability of mind, body, and heart. As we move through our moment-to-moment activities and meditation practice, we will then turn towards the investigation of suffering and the end of suffering. Particular attention will be paid to attitudes of mind—such as pushing away, leaning in, or spacing out—and the impacts of those mind states on one’s sense of peace and freedom in relation to experience.
Erin Selover
Retreat | On-Land
September 20 - September 25, 2025 | Saturday - Thursday | 5 nights
Awakening through the Three Characteristics: A Women’s Liberation Retreat
Open to all self-identified women.
We welcome all who identify as women, as well as non-binary folks who feel nourished in spaces centering women.
Registration Opens - February 19. The radical promise of the Buddha’s teaching is that it’s possible to be at ease and free, even in unfree conditions. During this retreat, we will practice mindfulness and compassion, looking at the unfolding of moment-to-moment experience and ways of perceiving that are grounded in the three characteristics of reality (aniccā, dukkha, and anattā). Nourished by the tradition of Buddhist communities abiding in silence, kindness, and clarity, our time will include mindfulness meditation in stillness, movement, and all daily activities.
Dharma Library
Can't join us live online or on the land? Study and practice at your convenience with Erin Selover through our new library of recordings, articles, and self-paced online courses.